Held by Community: A reflection after a hard week
When routines fall apart during March Break, parenting a child with ADHD and FASD can feel overwhelming and isolating. In the midst of dysregulation, self-doubt, and exhaustion, it’s often community that makes the difference. The quiet check-ins, shared understanding, and space to show up as you are can help caregivers stay grounded, reminding us that connection matters more than perfection.
March Break: Making space for connection (without the pressure)
March Break can carry a lot at once. There can be connection and ease, but also overwhelm, big feelings, and moments that don’t fit neatly into the idea of a “perfect” week. Here’s how to make things easier…
Holding Both: Family Day, Adoption, and Making Space for What’s True
Like many families built through adoption, our story is complex. It is full of love, joy, gratitude, and also grief, longing, and complicated feelings that don’t always fit neatly into greeting cards or holiday calendars.
The Complex Beauty of Openness During the Holidays
To other adoptive, kinship, and customary caregivers, I want to say this: you are not alone. Openness is a journey, and it looks different for every family. Trust your instincts, listen to your children, and give yourself grace. You’re doing the best you can, and that is enough.