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When Caregivers Go Numb

When caregiving begins to consume every part of your identity, it can leave you feeling numb, stretched thin, and disconnected from who you once were. The constant cycle of appointments, crises, and responsibilities can quietly push aside work, relationships, and even your sense of self. In the midst of that loss, it’s easy to feel alone—but naming it matters. Because even in the numbness, there is still a part of you worth finding your way back to.

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Held by Community: A reflection after a hard week

When routines fall apart during March Break, parenting a child with ADHD and FASD can feel overwhelming and isolating. In the midst of dysregulation, self-doubt, and exhaustion, it’s often community that makes the difference. The quiet check-ins, shared understanding, and space to show up as you are can help caregivers stay grounded, reminding us that connection matters more than perfection.

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The Complex Beauty of Openness During the Holidays

To other adoptive, kinship, and customary caregivers, I want to say this: you are not alone. Openness is a journey, and it looks different for every family. Trust your instincts, listen to your children, and give yourself grace. You’re doing the best you can, and that is enough.

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